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What do you even DO with cuties like this?! 🙀😻 #weareyou (at Gay Pride St. Louis, MO)

This visionary @peggynoland came to hang with us at our KC shoot. 😍 #weareyou (at Rosedale Park)

A great Kansas City face. #weareyou (at Kansas-Missouri border)

Hi! Will you be posting the photos from the 5 college queer conference soon?


They’re upppppp!!!

Watch our homies MOTHER perform their dope song ‘Easy’ on Perez TV while repping WE ARE YOU! <3

Are you guys doing everyone in the LGBTQ community or just gay people? I ask because I'm asexual and didn't know if you guys were representing us as well... Thank you for everything! I love seeing the updates on the photo shoots!


Hey there,

thank you for writing in with this very important question. 

First off, we want to highlight that this project doesn’t play into what is sometimes referred to as the ‘discrimination olympics’. This is not a show of ‘who has it worse’, this is just a project designed with a specific purpose in mind - to reach across the aisle to those who would legally discriminate against others because they are LGBTQ and try to generate a change of heart in them via empathy by asking them to look into the eyes of THOSE WHO ARE AFFECTED BY THEIR LAWS.

With that in mind, if you feel like you are 100% Asexual AND 100% A-romantic, then unfortunately THIS project doesn’t apply to you because you are not legally discriminated against in the USA. However, and this is very important; in no way are we trying to separate you from the LGBTQ community or tell you that you don’t belong. (We don’t, thankfully, have any power to do that.) We are simply the creators of ONE project, with ONE goal in mind, that is very specific. 

This has been a tense conversation that has surfaced a few times, and we hope that this isn’t articulated in a way that causes you any feelings of hurt or ostracizing. Please remember, we aren’t the gatekeepers to entry into the LGBTQ community, so this should in no way reflect that.

Sending you all our warmest,

from the SET crew 

Are you selective about the pictures you put online? And if you are, doesn't that defeat the purpose of the project?


Nope! We put up every single one we take, unless the camera screws up in some way. But that hasn’t happened in a loooong time. 


For Every Book Pre-Ordered, We Will Donate A Copy To A PFLAG Chapter!!!

We think it is very important to get This is a Book for Parents of Gay Kids in the hands of people who need it most: parents of LGBTQ kids. So, we have an important announcement: 

Through September 8th, every single pre-order for This is a Book for Parents of Gay Kids will be matched by our publisher, Chronicle Books, with a donated book to a local PFLAG Chapter!!!!

All you need to do to help us is:

1. Pre-order your copy before September 9
2. Go to this link to make sure your pre-order is matched!!

Let’s help get this book into the hands where it’s most needed.

This is pretty amazing.
Please share far & wide!!


Dannielle & Kristin

We paid the Westboro Baptist Church a big gay visit while we were in Kansas. #weareyou (at Westboro Baptist Church)

Look at this sweet St. Louis face! Come see us in Fargo today and Kansas City tomorrow! #weareyou (at Gay Pride St. Louis, MO)

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